Alright ya, this “BASAL” guy pissed me off too. And I’m sure the tumblr ummah entirely, is terribly hurt/angry/pissed/blowing up…BUT you guys, please….lets NOT stoop to his level. I’ve sent a private message of my own, telling him to educate himself a lil bit more, but honestly I’ve seen some rather harsh posts publicly humiliating him (not the funny memes)…and I don’t think its right. This isn’t how the prophet would have handled it, so lets show him we’re better than this. I TOTALLY understand everyone’s anger, but some of you are going too far….lets not do that. And honestly, he’s not the only one out there with so much hate, send him all the messages you want, but try not to publicly do that guys, please? I too believe he doesn’t deserve any kindness, and everything you guys are doing are to some extent justified, but honestly, he probably doesn’t deserve all this effort either you know?
Those memes tho….omg i cried.
ps. my stomach feels a lot better, thanks to everyone that made dua, you all are too kind.
I was cooking, and all of a sudden I had a like a shot of pain in my lower tummy, it was so extreme I kind of went blind…i literally couldn’t stand up anymore. Usually when my stomach hurts cuz of ulcers, I just take pain meds, and wait for it to go away, i dont tell a soul. My family worries too much. But my aunt like had to hold me up, and now im sorta laying here, and I dont think they’ll let me wait it out anymore and force me go to the hospital.
I don’t have a phone! I can’t even tell anyone, or talk to my parents. bleh.
gotta go, but if I don’t respond to asks/post anything… you guys know where I am.
Best friend of 4 and half years…always the brightest soul, with the hardest life. She had so much going on with her, that sometimes we as friends didn’t know how to handle it, but she NEVER complained. She never made it look like things were hell. We wouldn’t find anything out until we forced her to explain things. She was, and always will be like the strongest person I know.
9 months ago, she kind of went missing. We thought maybe she was busy with her masters program at first…but then slowly she was gone from fb, phone disconnected, wasn’t living at home, wasn’t enrolled in school. We looked for her like crazy, tried to get a hold of her every way possible. Our birthdays passed, her birthday passed, thanksgiving, eid…every holiday/break/and weekend that we would USUALLY spend together…but no sign of our precious and amazing friend.
Yesterday we get a phone call from an unknown number, picked up, and it was her! Her voice, we almost started to forget it. I could hear it shaking, I could hear her…she’s been crying for days, maybe months. She said “I didn’t call to talk about all this mess, just wanna let you know I’m safe, I’m alive, and I’ll be alright”
ALWAYS the strong one arent ya? not this time….we made her spill it, we made her tell us where she is, and what she’s doing..and tell us everything
Poor thing had to run away from home because her gambling addicted father stole all her money, left her on the streets to fend for herself…she has an illness only the doctors can cure, no money, no where to go, no phone to call us, no computer, no family that would take care of her…nothing. ALL the sacrifices she made for her family, sooo many many mant sacrifices for that dad of hers, and there she was, completely alone. She was taken in a shelter, and thats where she’s been. So social contact, no family, no school….had to drop out of her masters program A SEMESTER before she was done. A SEMESTER you guys. She was getting her MASTERS, probably one of the smartest person I know too. It broke my heart to pieces….to absolute tiny pieces when she told us all of this.
I told her to immediately go home, pack, and come stay with us….
she finally agreed, and we’re about to leave to bring her home, take care of her, get her in to a hospital, and go from there. She called her sister who lives in a different state, and she totally fails right now at being a sister and not coming to her rescue! but thats okay, she’s got us, and we’ll take care of it. Me and my cousin are just…soooo relieved that we can finally bring her home, and figure it all out. TOGETHER.
Life isn’t easy on anyyone, but its harder for some, and people like her give me so much hope!
“Things are sweeter when they’re lost. I know—because once I wanted something and got it. It was the only thing I ever wanted badly…. And when I got it it turned to dust in my hands.”—F. Scott Fitzgerald (via andcombust)